Anonymous4: @Anonymous: When discussing his wardrobe he says "To be able to wake up in the morning, pick from my closet a variety of cloaks, waistcoats, top hats, and even binders that are period appropriate..." The key word is binders :)
Anonymous6: Men in victorian times wore binders so they could look thiner and more attractive. Well thats what i read i love this man and im stuck between wether or not he is trans
Anonymous10: The trans-theory was confirmed over Twitter by Leighton Gray (one of the co-creators of Dream Daddy) when a fan of the game asked about it!!
Anonymous11: Kinda weird that he'd wanna stick that in his pussy though. Just coming from a bio male's perspective, if I was in that kinda position that shit would make me queasy as fuck.
Anonymous15: If yall like your vaginas so much why go out of your way to pretend to be a guy? Cause pretty much ask any real dude if hed do that if he had a pussy with a mans brain, answers gonna be a fuck no. If you feel like you werent supposed to have a fuckin hole where a dick shoulda been, how the hell can you enjoy it? Seems akin to sticking something in an open wound from my perspective. Not really the manliest way to assert youself as one...
Anonymous17: Mm, kind of in the middle here, guys. I'm trans too, and I actually tried this one in a horny moment of morbid curiousity. And yeah. It was absolutely disgusting and terrifying. Pretty much exactly what @anon15 said about an open wound. That's basically what it is. So yeah as a person with a bio male's brain, this makes me just as queasy and uncomfortable as some of you.
Anonymous18: @anon 13. Speak for yourself. That's the sole cause of suicidal depression in my life. How the fuck am I supposed to enjoy anything about it? I'm a fucking MAN. I can't be the only one who feels this way, cmon...
(Open wound description is accurate as fuck btw. I wouldn't dare mess with that shit)
Anonymous19: Woof - threatened much? Real men (ftm trans men included) have all different tastes. Try to approach art like this with an open mind. If every human had sex the same way, what a boring world we'd live in. I think this depiction of Damien is smokin' hot. As a trans person who loves to top, this would be my Dream Daddy for sure. <3
Anonymous21(20): Nah, I don't think they're threatened so much as put off being portrayed like a woman? I'm trans as well and being that everyone elevates Damien to fucking 'transman portrayal of the century' this DOES make me uncomfortable. My rule of thumb is to artists trying to draw trans men respectively and accurately, if it would offend a biological man, it will probably offend a trans one too. Hence drawing a man with a vagina, using it at that, when all the other men get portrayed normally, is definitely gonna put off the normal side of the trans community that just want to be read as cis dudes.
Anonymous22: I'm a transgender woman who's dating a trans man, and have two other friends who are also ftm, and knowing how touchy they are about things like this makes it very uncomfortable to see. They would sooner put themselves through physical hell with some other body parts before they'd even consider doing this to themselves. I can see the pleasure of it from a female perspective, but to know Damien is a trans man is very strange to see him using that like a woman.
Anonymous23: This is fucking hot <3 (i'm a gay cis male)
But i find some of the comment really transphobic if a transboy who like using his cunt read these he would surely be really dysphoric
Anonymous24: Meh, I see where you guys are coming from though. I'm trans, also a runner, so I'm not as dysphoric as a lot of other trans men I know, since physically its a comfort-advantage in that, not having a bulge grinding and all. But still. I see it as a dick and treat it as a dick. Its not a cunt. Its not a bonus hole. I'm a man, so it's a dick. I don't see a whole lot of guys sticking their thumbs in their dickholes. Considering that's basically what it is, I'm not surprised at all that there's so many other trans guys put off by the idea of it.
(Also super ironic that we're all transphobic against ourselves for having the genuine brains of cis men...)
Anonymous26: @anon23 well here's an idea for you. imagine you're still you, a gay man, but stuck with a female's body. but your brain still tells you that 'cunt' is actually a penis. i dont know if youre top or bottom, but even in the bottom case your mind would read it as a penis and make you squeamish at the thought of sticking a dick literally inside yours.
normal trans men dont do this stuff. i know 2 guys who cant even use tampons cause of the dysphoria. to do this and enjoy it is not read as normal by a lot of us.
also what 24 said, the fact that you called it a cunt shows why youd think thats at all natural. if you guys wanna have fetishes bout our disorders, fine. but dont expect us to not voice our ironically transphobic opinions.
Anonymous30(23): @Anon26 i know what you are saying bit i've know a transguy who was okay to use his front hole, and if i was a transboy i would surely use it too ,like i totally understand that most of ftm are pretty dysphoric about that but some of them just use their genital cause they like it
Anonymous32: @Anon 31. I think it's in part because a lot of people didn't know he was trans, since the only solid proof was that creator's tweet; which came well after many people bought the game and already had him set as cis in their head. I saw him as cis until I heard about the tweet, and still prefer to see him that way, though I have no issue with the trans depictions be it canon or not.
Personally, I think the creators made a mistake in not making this an in-game revelation. That's where the conflict's coming from. The game was too vague with it, they should have just had him come out and say it, rather than sort of 'coding' him as trans behind the whole goth thing.
So then you have one group of people grasping at anything they can to canonize him as trans, and a whole other group rejecting the idea, violently, because they established him as cis, but they feel like they aren't publicly allowed to depict him or see him as such lest they be accused of 'trans erasure' or something.
I'm trans and here's my take on that: Surgery, currently, is very very expensive and more importantly, not yet perfected and carries some heavy risks. I couldn't afford it as I financially stand now, as many trans men couldn't. As far as I know, generally most of us have the mindset of 'if a couple years of waiting for the surgery to improve is the difference between a nice, normal looking, functional penis or a potentially botched proceedure, by god I'll find a way to get by til then...'
Speaking from personal experience, bottom dysphoria is allieviated A LOT after hormones and top surgery. However, for me it doesn't change the fact that my genitals are still read by my instincts as a penis. Penetration, in any form, feels completely wrong, and is something I would only ever tolerate for medical or sanitary reasons. So I completely understand why a lot of men here are saying they would never have sex or masturbate this way. I certainly wouldn't.
Anonymous40: @Anonymous35 "Speaking from personal experience, bottom dysphoria is allieviated A LOT after hormones and top surgery." I can relate to this. Obviously it won't be the same for everyone, but I used to have bad bottom dysphoria before I started to transition medically, and now that I've been on T for almost four years and have had top surgery my attitude toward my pussy has mellowed out a lot. My junk resembles Damien's as depicted here and I'm fine with it and have learned to enjoy it quite a bit. Would I have a dick instead if I could? Absolutely, but at least for the time being I'm not going to have sex reassignment surgery.
I get that some other trans guys may not feel the same way at all and obviously that's fine, but the generalization that all of us wouldn't want to or wouldn't enjoy being penetrated in the front by anything at all is just untrue.
Yeah, definitely didn't ever expect to comment anything serious on this website.
Anonymous41: Dude, ya’ll need to shut the fuck up. Shit. It’s a fucking game about fucking dads. Everyone’s eyes and thoughts are only about their cocks, so obviously if one of them doesn’t fucking have one - it’s gonna be a fucking thing to think about. This isn’t making transmen “uncomfortable”, or making biological men feel “awkward”, it’s a fucking pussy on a guy and it’s a dildo. Why worry about how he gets off? It’s a fucking porn site for porn. Don’t like it? Move the fuck on what the fuck.
Why does every trans dude have to fucking validate themselves, no one cares about your genitals. Tumblr motherfuckers.
Anonymous43: anon 45, yea I kinda know how it feels.
so I downloaded the fucking game to date GAY MEN. like, u know, I definitely don't wanna date mentally ill woman that slowly destroying her own body. fucking sick.
Anonymous44: anon46 you realize all of the men in this game are most likely bi because they were all married or fucked women at some point to make children right?
Anonymous46: I really just want to agree with @Anonymous: Because not everyone is the same. Yes a lot of trans-man have very bad bottom dysphoria before they are on T. I can confirm this myself as well. Since I've been on T for more than a year now I've grown quite comfy with my lower parts. I still would rather have a well functionating dick but I know that is not possible yet and its surgery will always have the high risk of loosing my sexual life entirely and I'm not even thirty so I'm surely not ready for that. I like sex and I like enjoying sex. I think it doesn't make you trans or not-trans if you enjoy putting dildos up there or not.
Anonymous52: (Ok I'm not gonna lie seeing penetration there definitely makes me queasy. (Like guy watching guy get kicked in the nuts level queasy.) It's not for me sexually and I think I just really 'feel' it here cause I'm looking at a trans guy and can project.) But all that aside I think its beautiful fanart! And its nice to have the erotic representation even if its causing controversy.
Also I just wanna add on the subject of said controversy: I actually do see where these guys are coming from. I hate that you guys are coming off so damn pissy about it, but I see where that would be annoying and uncomfortable if you're a gay guy, going into the game under the premise they're all bio men, only to ever so subtley find out vamp daddy was trans in-game. Then find not only the majority of nsfw art depicts him that way but is also swarmed with these flip side annoying sjw people who will tell you to die cause you offended their precious fictional trans character. I can see why you'd feel kinda cheated there, but moreso austricized for wanting to view or depict him as a non-trans man. (I love both to be honest. Bio Damien is hot and feeds my fantasy like the others do, but trans Damien feels personal and makes me feel good about myself.)
Anyway, I think that's where all this crap is coming from. In my opinion the creators should have mentioned it from the start. Or made a bigger deal of it in game so its not just some one-line detail that gets blown up by people who want it, but shoved down the throats of people who didn't even see it coming.
I mean in the end Damien is just a fictional character. He can be whatever you want him to be, whenever you want. Make him a bio guy, make him a trans guy, genderbend him as a lady OR a trans woman, make him a sexless vampire who transforms into a bat for all I care. Fanwork was made to be enjoyed and indulged in, and every single fan has the right to create what they want how they want to. There are ways to respect art even if you're personally at odds with it.
Anonymous55: @Anonymous: what about intersex people?
there's a specific intersex condition in which a person will have a vagina, grow breasts during puberty, no body hair ever grows, but instead of ovaries has testes. that person's sex is male, despite having a vagina (and breasts, and appearing otherwise female). so even following your own logic of sex = gender, there are men with vaginas.
Anonymous56: As a trans man myself, I’ll just say that this doesn’t make me uncomfortable at all. This artwork is amazing and Damien is drawn beautifully, kudos to the artist.
Anonymous59(57): alrighty you retards. This is a porn site. Take your tumblr asses somewhere else. If people aren’t allowed to enjoy porn on sites like twitter or tumblr, why make it harder for people on literal websites dedicated to 18+ content and make it worse for people on there? Why is everything offensive or transphobic to you? Because someone likes a fictional vampire trans guy to be cis on a fucking porn site? It’s not even official or anything, it’s a fucking porn site where people can get off to whatever interpretations of characters they find hot. Shut the fuck up. This is a porn site, people don’t come here to look for character development and representation, they come here to fap. Who cares how he gets himself off in a random porn pic made by some horny fan? He’s a fucking fictional character, it isn’t actually taking away representation, because it’s fucking porn. People get off to stuff you don’t. What a concept. People aren’t attracted to the same representations of characters as others. Shocking. And by the way, a lot of trans guys actually like this shit and support it. You aren’t speaking for the whole trans community, only a snowflake part of it. Go back to tumblr and go fuck yourselves. Oh, I’m sorry, is that too transphobic? Because I don’t like to see a heated debate over porn of a fictional vampire. Grow the fuck up, retards
Anonymous61: As a trans guy it's a way to reclaim my body and feel less dysphoric about it to use it that way. It feels good and helps. The idea of people implying I'm not a real guy because I enjoy physical sensations make me really feel like shite. But I understand why some guy are uncomfortably with that sort of content
Truth be told it's just straight up porn, enjoy it or not but ranting is useless.
Anonymous62: Cis gay guy here, and i don't usually comment but i'll just get this off my chest: i am very, very supportive of the trans community (got a ton of trans friends and whatnot), but i have to agree that this isn't necessarily the place to discuss body dysphoria. Hope we all can move on with our lives and be happy with who we are.
Also, Anonymous63 is right, but he's a complete asshole about it (Tumblr jokes in 2020, how original).
Anonymous63: the amount of transphobia in this comments section makes me fucking sick. so i'm a trans guy and i enjoy having sex using that hole. and it's fucking fine. i have a lot of dysphoria about my genitals but it feels good and i think it's quite hot. and i know that many gay guys find it hot too, don't lie to yourself. if you're fucking a man and he has that kind of a layout you don't suddenly start fucking a woman. because we don't see people as isolated body parts, we see them as a whole. you don't suddenly become bi if you want to fuck a trans man. so get the fuck over yourself and stop spewing transphobic bullshit. as for trans men who's dysphoria is triggered by this, i get it, but fuck don't like don't watch. stop imposing your experience of dysphoria upon other trans men. sometimes it really triggers me, and sometimes i find it kinda hot. it's all fine, it's just porn
Anonymous68: @Anonymous: uh.... hun. alright where do i begin with this. I am nonbinary. I identified as a trans man for 2 years prior. I own plenty of sex toys. Its about overcoming the pain of it. I had days where i showered fully clothed with the lights off and mirrors covered because i couldnt stand to look at my body. I have overcome that pain. I have learnt that i was born with this body, and for the time that i live with it, i might as well enjoy it. If you ask any man what they would do if they were turned into a biological woman for a day i can guarantee they would play with their tits and vagina. No one is "pretending" to be a guy you transphobic dipshit. Some people who have vaginas dont even GIVE A SHIT if they're manly or not. Trans people dont owe you Gender-Stereotypes. Get over yourself. Read a book. Youre being lazy. <3
Anonymous69(68): @Anonymous: im sorry that you feel that way. i hope things have gotten better. It can hurt. I would know. I hope you find yourself one day looking in the mirror thinking "Damn. Im hot" yaknow. I really hope things get/have gotten better. Acceptance is key my friend. One thing that has helped me is spite. The world/god(s)/people around you expect/want you to hate your body. I live through spite. "I love my body because Fuck human beings. Im going to love myself JUST because you dont." I hope this helps. stay safe. keep fighting. Thank you for being here.
Anonymous70(68): @Anonymous: Wh-....... hold up- what? The fuck? Hold on... child... you just going to say that shit??..... Alright let me put you on full volume for a moment. Who the FUCK do you think you are? If im nonbinary and im comfy with my coochie, but it isnt the ideal situation, does that make me a woman? If im chubby and im comfy being round and proud of it, but id like being a smaller size, does that make me skinny? If im a biological man and im comfy with my dick, but i jerk off to lesbian sex, does that make me a woman?? Hunny... take a second to check yourself. People are different. Quite frankly ive seen both sides of this argument. I hated my body. For years. And ive fought it. To the point i can enjoy the pleasure i get from taking advantage of what i was given. Sure i cant look at it. But im a work in progress. Arent we all? LET PEOPLE BE HAPPY WITH THEY BODIES! DUMBASS!
Anonymous71(68): @Anonymous: alright. listen. im going to assume you're just stupid, alright? Benifit of the doubt. Im assuming youre just a dumbass because it wouldnt be fair to assume you CHOSE to be a fucking idiot. Now lets not be lazy, and get into some actual work here. Read a book maybe? Public libraries exist. You obviously have the internet. Use it maybe? How about talking to people? Do you have friends? People you can talk to about these things? Good. If not, have fun choosing ignorance and being a lazy sack of shit <3
Anonymous75: Mfs are fighting of trans men are real men or not on a PORN WEBSITE damn I you're not into it click off its not illegal or anything what's the problem
Anonymous77: sensitive mfs like shut your damn mouth nobody gaf about your trandphobic shit the fact that yall search queer porn just to hate on it, yalld asses are so obsessed with us
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Not all trans dudes hate their vajeens. I sure don't hate mine. 👍
Enjoy the bonus hole
Or be the moron who never will <3
It's a sign you've found yourself one tough girlfriend. Muy macha.
(Open wound description is accurate as fuck btw. I wouldn't dare mess with that shit)
But i find some of the comment really transphobic if a transboy who like using his cunt read these he would surely be really dysphoric
(Also super ironic that we're all transphobic against ourselves for having the genuine brains of cis men...)
normal trans men dont do this stuff. i know 2 guys who cant even use tampons cause of the dysphoria. to do this and enjoy it is not read as normal by a lot of us.
also what 24 said, the fact that you called it a cunt shows why youd think thats at all natural. if you guys wanna have fetishes bout our disorders, fine. but dont expect us to not voice our ironically transphobic opinions.
Personally, I think the creators made a mistake in not making this an in-game revelation. That's where the conflict's coming from. The game was too vague with it, they should have just had him come out and say it, rather than sort of 'coding' him as trans behind the whole goth thing.
So then you have one group of people grasping at anything they can to canonize him as trans, and a whole other group rejecting the idea, violently, because they established him as cis, but they feel like they aren't publicly allowed to depict him or see him as such lest they be accused of 'trans erasure' or something.
I'm trans and here's my take on that: Surgery, currently, is very very expensive and more importantly, not yet perfected and carries some heavy risks. I couldn't afford it as I financially stand now, as many trans men couldn't. As far as I know, generally most of us have the mindset of 'if a couple years of waiting for the surgery to improve is the difference between a nice, normal looking, functional penis or a potentially botched proceedure, by god I'll find a way to get by til then...'
Speaking from personal experience, bottom dysphoria is allieviated A LOT after hormones and top surgery. However, for me it doesn't change the fact that my genitals are still read by my instincts as a penis. Penetration, in any form, feels completely wrong, and is something I would only ever tolerate for medical or sanitary reasons. So I completely understand why a lot of men here are saying they would never have sex or masturbate this way. I certainly wouldn't.
I get that some other trans guys may not feel the same way at all and obviously that's fine, but the generalization that all of us wouldn't want to or wouldn't enjoy being penetrated in the front by anything at all is just untrue.
Yeah, definitely didn't ever expect to comment anything serious on this website.
Why does every trans dude have to fucking validate themselves, no one cares about your genitals. Tumblr motherfuckers.
so I downloaded the fucking game to date GAY MEN. like, u know, I definitely don't wanna date mentally ill woman that slowly destroying her own body. fucking sick.
u like being a bigot, dont ya? i meant that i want to date a man, not a sick woman, okay?
Also I just wanna add on the subject of said controversy: I actually do see where these guys are coming from. I hate that you guys are coming off so damn pissy about it, but I see where that would be annoying and uncomfortable if you're a gay guy, going into the game under the premise they're all bio men, only to ever so subtley find out vamp daddy was trans in-game. Then find not only the majority of nsfw art depicts him that way but is also swarmed with these flip side annoying sjw people who will tell you to die cause you offended their precious fictional trans character. I can see why you'd feel kinda cheated there, but moreso austricized for wanting to view or depict him as a non-trans man. (I love both to be honest. Bio Damien is hot and feeds my fantasy like the others do, but trans Damien feels personal and makes me feel good about myself.)
Anyway, I think that's where all this crap is coming from. In my opinion the creators should have mentioned it from the start. Or made a bigger deal of it in game so its not just some one-line detail that gets blown up by people who want it, but shoved down the throats of people who didn't even see it coming.
I mean in the end Damien is just a fictional character. He can be whatever you want him to be, whenever you want. Make him a bio guy, make him a trans guy, genderbend him as a lady OR a trans woman, make him a sexless vampire who transforms into a bat for all I care. Fanwork was made to be enjoyed and indulged in, and every single fan has the right to create what they want how they want to. There are ways to respect art even if you're personally at odds with it.
there's a specific intersex condition in which a person will have a vagina, grow breasts during puberty, no body hair ever grows, but instead of ovaries has testes. that person's sex is male, despite having a vagina (and breasts, and appearing otherwise female). so even following your own logic of sex = gender, there are men with vaginas.
Truth be told it's just straight up porn, enjoy it or not but ranting is useless.
Also, Anonymous63 is right, but he's a complete asshole about it (Tumblr jokes in 2020, how original).